Just another day
It’s been a while since I’ve posted anything meaningful here…sorry ’bout that. I’ve had deadlines at work (big project!) and deadlines at home with the new Spindle And Wheel issue coming out on the 15th. Still, it hasn’t been work, work, work and nothing else. We’ve been to the lake a couple of times. Kept up with the house work (sort of). Saw some fireworks and what-not.
Sometimes I slack a bit here because Allena posts pretty much the same thing I would on her blog, and I don’t want to sound redundant.
I get to go to court tomorrow (whoopie! not). I had a little…ahem…incident in the McDonald’s drive thru. An impatient man a couple of cars behind us decided to yell obscenities out his car window because we weren’t getting out of the way fast enough for him. I replied in kind. Things, shall we say, escalated. Ultimately, I was charged with disturbing the piece. I don’t know if he was or not. Seems like he should be too, but I got out of my car to confront him, and he stayed in his, and apparently that makes all the difference.
In light of that, I’m going to step on my soap box for a moment. A lot of folks like to talk about the good-old-days. One of the themes that comes up often is how people used to take care of things themselves without involving the police or suing. Now, I’m not advocating vigilante justice here, but I do think that certain things ought to be considered settled without involving the police. As an example, if I were to provoke somebody so badly that they came over and beat me up, I would just take my lumps and not call the police – especially if I got a few shots in too. There’s a threshold on that of course. If I provoked somebody and they came over and beat me within an inch of my life with a steel pipe, I’d probably call the police. I guess you can’t really have it both ways. Mostly I’m irritated that this guy provoked me, and then filed charges when I had the gall to do something about it. Sigh. End of rant.
I get to go to an oral surgeon next week (whoopie again! still not). I have a wisdom tooth that is growing at an angle into my molar. Because of this, it will never come up on its own. However, it does occasionally cause an infection which is quite painful. This happens once or twice a year – typically it aches for a day or two and goes away. I live with it because a) oral surgery is expensive even with insurance and b) because the roots of the tooth are wrapped around a nerve and there’s a chance that if they take it out I’ll have a numb spot on my jaw. This time, the infection was much worse. I ended up getting some antibiotics to clear it up, but I was alternating advil and tylenol every two hours to keep the pain tolerable for FIVE DAYS. So, next week – oral surgeon, and I’ll just have to hope he’s good enough to miss the nerve. I’ll also have to hope that he’ll finance things. Last time I checked (years ago) it was going to cost around $1000 to get the tooth out AFTER insurance.
Dominic has been working on a 4-H robotics project that we took to the fair last night. We were actually a few minutes late past the entry deadline, but they let him enter it anyway. I really dropped the ball on this project of his – he had a couple of broken/lost parts that had to be replaced. I ended up getting parts at Radio Shack last night at about 5:00pm – I got home with them and he was writing up a summary of his project. We all ended up getting in the car and driving to the fair (40 miles or so) and we got there at 7:08pm – entry cut off was at 7:00, but hey…it’s 4-H, they’re used to dealing with kids and the parents that make them late!
Dominic was making repairs to his robot in the car on the way over. They didn’t work. He had a print-out of his code and looked through it and found his bug (my heart swells with pride! My little boy debugs!). Poor kid was very frustrated/flustered when we got there – I think he was ready to just walk away and forget it. He couldn’t get past the “my robot doesn’t work” frame of mind. The judge was very kind though – she had him explain the things he learned, and what it was designed to do (it follows a line around using infra-red sensors). I think she was impressed by the amount of effort he put into the project – which was a lot – and also because he’s truly interested in it. That’s what’s truly important about 4-H. Not that it works, but that you learn and grow. She said she thought it was worth a blue ribbon. I think he’ll be able to take it to the state fair. That would be really cool, especially as he could make his repairs and have a working robot to demonstrate. I’ll keep you posted on that.
Anyhow, those are the highlights.
Beau

MO'B said,
July 11, 2007 @ 4:50 pm
How have I not heard of this!
I hope everything turns out ok, you ruffian!
Sounds like something I’d do!
Heehehehhee
jerome said,
July 12, 2007 @ 6:50 am
yet another reason why I have sworn of mcdonalds! good luck in court but more importantly good luck @ the surgeons…..just had a tooth yanked about 6 months ago…. still cost me $300 after insurance and that was for a molar that was exposed and not wrapped around a nerve…..
oh and I would claim you were defending yourself from the loud mouth moron…
Beau said,
July 12, 2007 @ 2:01 pm
Well, court went pretty well today. $50 fine plus court costs – about $90 all together. Expensive lesson for loosing my composure, but it could have been worse I guess. The judge seemed to understand that I was provoked, and i think he went kind of easy on me for that.
I’m bettin’ the oral surgeon is going to cost more though…
allena (protector of morons) said,
July 13, 2007 @ 12:26 am
The rest of the story, I didn’t post about this, because, well it’s not my story. But while Beau was in the prosess of getting into a fight, I was wedging myself between him and Stupid Idiots car, and I finally got him to go back to our car. He had whapped the door with his knee,not hard, so I checked for damage, tried to talk to the guy, and he wouldn’t open his window, just drove by. So the NEXT DAY he files charges for assult, because Beau allegedly put two dime sized dents in his door. WITH HIS KNEE!!! The guy claimed he left before the police could come, because he was in fear for his life, yet he stopped to get his food. and then screamed more obscenties at us, as he squalled from the parking lot. I was so calm, but by then I wanted to pound him.
I’m not sure if he’s safe, it seems to me that if I were to ever see him again…Fiery Red Headed Death, BIGTIME. This is why I like sheep better than people. What Beau did was wrong, what this guy did was wrong. He wouldn’t even thank me for saving his life, which he was in fear of losing. jerk.
Jerome said,
July 20, 2007 @ 10:34 am
Hmm very serious topic here or Allena’s line of “that is why I like sheep more….” would get more play!
Glad to hear it was just a dollar cost lesson and not a public service cost lesson plus a probation officer lesson!
allena (protector of morons) said,
July 20, 2007 @ 4:08 pm
Jerome,
now really lets not go there with the sheep thing. I am not that type of weird.
Beau said,
July 20, 2007 @ 10:47 pm
So, I get to have surgery on Thursday, and I was right – it’s going to cost more than court did. Around $400 after the insurance. sigh. I hate my teeth.
Jerome "GW" said,
July 23, 2007 @ 1:39 pm
Hey get ‘em yanked and go colonial – get a wooden set!
Hey Allena – there is all types of weird…. and I am trying to recall who said, “the company of animals is always preferable to human contact; for animals never lie.”